whore

I was always told that women who had indiscriminate sex would get labeled and spoken of with malicious winks. Labeled ‘whore’ and – you know all the epithets. As for the women I’ve heard about mentioned that way, I never felt one way or another towards them: I didn’t know them.

I don’t think about people or things I don’t know.

(Do you know where this drift is headed? Maybe you do.) I always assumed that as a preschool teacher who doesn’t wear makeup and doesn’t even know how to flirt I would be firmly relegated to the land of ‘women who are never talked about one way or another’. Sometimes I’d watch a movie with a really sexy woman in it and think Wow! It must be kind of amazing to be sexy. She looks as different from me as a pheasant does from, I don’t know – a mailbox. But that was it. I wish I could say I don’t think about my looks because I am awesome, but really it’s just that I’m surviving. I feel like some sort of arctic explorer jumping from one ill-advised melting floe to another and trying not to count the cost.

I think every time I don’t sleep with a guy he calls me a whore.

I felt the wall move against my back, and I realized that whatever I’ve ever felt, I’d never felt the peculiar stab of finding out that people are literally talking about me, like some kind of nightmare of whispers and dismissive glances. I hugged my knees and felt myself folding up inwardly and outwardly, like human origami.

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9 thoughts on “whore

  1. Lola, I can speak from the other extreme of that spectrum: being very popular socially, intimately, occupationally…I’ve never had issues of “being labeled” introverted. I am clicking the “Like” button only because of your rawness here — I love that. Yet, I don’t like the result of this inward (and outward) origami…unless, somehow it is beneficial in a way I’m ignorant about; which is completely likely as I sometimes have trouble reading-between-your-lines, which ironically is the reflection of your “I don’t think about people or things I don’t know.” Hah!

    So here we are….

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